Monday, January 24, 2011

Ohhh! Ohhh! Orgasms!

Orgasms. If you've had one (I sure hope you have), you want another and another and anoth- Sorry, let's continue. Orgasms. They're important. I'm convinced they're part of a healthy, happy, human existence. There's an inner peace that takes over every cell of your body once you achieve the big O. You feel relaxed and alive at the same time. Whether the climax is achieved with another or alone matters not.

I've been thinking about orgasms and how important they are in real life and in the fictional world of my books. Besides the kiss, the first orgasm between the hero and heroine is THE moment you've got to get right. It's the culmination of mounting passion and it has to SIZZLE. I've always loved how easy lovers achieve orgasms between the pages of a romance book. I can't count how many times I've read of heroines reaching the big O with no clitoral stimulation or within the first...yep, the first powerful thrust of the hero. Suspension of disbelief at its finest! Today, I prefer more realistic sex scenes in my work and in whatever I'm reading.

Let's face it, the big O eludes most of us when we're making love. Almost seventy percent of us fake it! Wouldn't it be nice if we (women) could climax in reality as fast and easy as the heroines in the books we love to read? Better yet, wouldn't it be nice to be wired like men and know going into making love that the big O is gonna happen unless you stop short? I think it's amazing guys can get off every single time...barring no health issues or whatever. It's seems so unfair.


But then I think women treasure and feel orgasms deeper. Having orgasms alone is wonderful. Incredible sometimes, but there's nothing like getting there with someone you love (or lust). We know how special they are especially when achieved with a lover. Give us a good climax and we'll remember you forever. We'll daydream about you...even fantasize about you when we're...we're cooking dinner. :)


I read an article where they are developing a pill to help women achieve them more easily. Imagine if there was a pill you could take anytime of day and climax within seconds. Eureka! How would the dating scene and sexual relationships change? I'm pretty sure it would change a lot.

So, for all you readers of erotic romance. Do you want realistic orgasms or do you prefer the fantasy O? What would you think if you read a sex scene where the heroine didn't have an orgasm at all, but still enjoyed the lovemaking? Is that too realistic? :)

I believe orgasms are DIVINE gifts. Give one or get one today!

~NG

14 comments:

  1. Is it wrong to want an O every day? LOL I always write about paranormal creatures, so I figure the women are probably likely to have an O with penetration only. But I agree, it does seem damn unfair that a man can obtain an orgasm from just having sex. Yet, at the same time, it's special when we have one because it takes time and patience. And if a man cares enough to give you one or help you get there, then that's fantastically special! As you said, nothing we'll forget either. =D

    Great post, Nichelle. I promoted it on FB for you.

    Huggles,
    Gracen

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  2. Hi Nichelle,

    A very interesting topic. As a reader, I adore exploring how others, both men and women, experience the Big O. It's always much smoother, less hectic for them than it's been for me. LOL But, that may be part of the attraction for women, and some men. We struggle for that Big O so hard sometimes, it must seem to our lovers that we're in pain or angry about it. It can be frustrating, but when it happens, it's AWESOME and I want more, and more, and ... uh, well, more!

    I write m/m a lot, so I don't deal with womens issues a lot right now. When I write het, I often write femdom, and it's a different kind of erotica, so I'm not sure it fits this topic. The orgasm is definitely still there, but the excitement could very well be because of the fetish rather than just the sensation.

    Oh, I re-tweeted this for you. Have an amazing Monday!

    Hugs

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  3. @Gracen Orgasms everyday would be NIRVANA!!! I agree with what you said about it taking time and patience which makes them O so special when they happen with a lover. I love writing paranormal as well because it seems like the heroes have special talent in the bedroom which pretty much guarantees a climax. Thanks for reading and sharing on FB!

    @Jude Yep, when it happens it's so amazing. You can't help but want more. I'm going to have to check out your femdom stuff. I know what it is, but I haven't read anything in the genre...yet! Thanks for coming by and re-tweeting too!

    You guys rock!

    ;0)

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  4. Hi Nichelle!

    I love your blog. It's beautiful and the content is always nice. Okay, jealous moment over.

    As for this topic...I gotta tell you, my sister O's with very little stimuli. She claims her ex boyfriend can do something crazy to her breasts and make her climax without ever heading south. I'd hound him to find out his secret if it wasn't inappropriate. I know my SO is pretty good in that same area, drives me crazy but O-ing on just that? I dunno if I could.

    BUT, I'm a demanding lover. I make sure he O's every time...so if I don't, he better get back on the train and keep trying or he gets the stink-eye.

    As far as writing orgasms...I can only revert to my experiences and that of my sister's. And yet I still try to stay away from the no-touching O. LOL It's like a big fish story. You want to believe it, but jealousy can make a woman snarky and callin' Bullsh*t.

    Thanks for a great topic!
    All my best,
    Allure

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  5. Awww...thanks so much for the compliment, Allure. I agonize of this blog sometimes, so it's nice to know I'm doing something right! :)

    As for you sister achieving the big O with just breast stimulation...I AM SO JEALOUS!! lol Seriously, the world of women need to know his secret!

    Thanks for coming by! ;0)

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  6. Nichelle, excellent post. As an author, I believe in my characters having great mindblowing sex, and the girl getting her Os regularly. I mean, what's the point in being an author if you cant write such wonderful fantasies? Firm believer, here.

    However, I think that I would prefer those rare deep, powerful Os with that special man who can take me there. And he'd have to be damned special, cause Amaya is not easy to please. Those are the ones that I recall when I am writing a hot sex scene because those are the ones a woman never ever forgets.

    Even years later when that guy is long gone, memories of what he did to take you there will bring a smile to your face. And you may never truly hate him (in spite of everything) just because.

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  7. I'm coming to you via Erotic Horizon. I'm an aspiring adult romance/erotica writer. I'm adding you to my slowly growing blogroll. I find this topic interesting and plan to post on it soon because at the moment, I enjoy the fantasy O more. I want lovemaking to be like it is in the books I read and find it disappointing when it's not. I know I need to get over that. Seriously.

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  8. @Amaya, I agree with you. I want the heroine to get there in the book, but I still want it done somewhere within the realm of possiblity. And, yep, it's hard to hate a guy no matter how bad the relationship was who made your toes curl. ;0)

    @Evolet, Welcome to Simply Sexy Stories! Thanks for adding my blog to your blogroll. I wish we could all experience those fantasy O's in real life too. I think that's why women love reading romance/erotic novels so much. They fill in the gaps where real life sex/romance so often can fail. They make us WANT to make love because we want to see if we can capture the fantasy that we KNOW is a fantasy. lol Take away our books and men all over the world would suffer! ;0)

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  9. Interesting topic, lol! Um...as an author, I try to make orgasms realistic. But it wouldn't be a compelling erotic story if the characters took forty minutes trying to reach the Big O, now would it? Haha!

    As for in real life? I'm bisexual. My sex drive is pretty damn high. I have an orgasm just about every day. I feel sorry for women who are unable to have one! How cruel! I'm just lucky that I can have multiple multiple big o moments at once. :)

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  10. Hey, VC!

    I agree that it wouldn't be a compelling erotic story with ten pages of the hero trying to get the heroine off. lol

    An orgasm everyday? Aren't you a lucky girl! And you had to rub it in with the multiple orgasms at once, eh? I might need to interview you so you can share your O secrets with us all. ;0)

    Have a fab Wednesday!

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  11. sweet ladies just reading ur typing makes me orgasm. (i am a male)

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