Tuesday, May 31, 2011

The Low-Down Truth About The Cock

Happy Tuesday! I hope you had a refreshing and relaxing weekend! I woke up this morning eager to share part of a conversation I had with my husband recently. We were discussing the latest scandal with Arnold and his wife and I asked the same thing I always do: "Why do men cheat so easily, seemingly with no regard for the woman they claim to love?"
I'm especially baffled when the other woman isn't as glamorous or savvy or whatever.

My husband's response was simple and swift: "The cock doesn't love...it wants to be fed. Therefore, it doesn't discriminate."

He's told me before how men can disassociate sex with a stranger from loving and making love to their woman. I always argued, but if you love your woman...if you care about the relationship you're in, you wouldn't step out there like that.

I guess it's just not that simple or rather complicated for some men. Sex is a driving need, the cock a pulsating force fueled by lust that often controls their actions minus their hearts or brain.

Hey, they don't call it the other head for nothing.

The pussy on the other hand is wired to the heart (in most cases) and has a close connection to the brain. Most woman only have an affair once their lover has neglected their heart and a new heart connection is made. Sure, lust can inspire a one-night stand but even then the heart for a woman is likely to become involved...especially if the sex is amazing.

I am woman and I have found sex to be the most pleasurable when my heart is involved, but I finally get why men can have affairs and still claim to love the woman their with. I don't think it's right. I'm not sure how I would handle or if I could forgive the betrayal personally...but I get it.

Bottomline...the cock is an entity unto itself, it can make love, but it doesn't have to love the one it's with. The cock can make up its own rules on the fly, throwing loyalty or monogamy out the window in the face of the undeniable, unrelenting quest all men enjoy: NuPussy.

It begs the question most woman have asked at one time or another:

Can a man be faithful? Is it illogical to even believe monogamy is possible? Are we (the monogamists) asking for impossible by trying to change the very nature of a man?

Whew! Deep thoughts for a Monday morning.

I need another cup of coffee...

~NG

18 comments:

  1. It's true! *sob* It's true!
    Just for the sake of devil's advocacy, I'm going to admit that I fall on the other side of the spectrum. I'm a firm believer in polyamory, or the notion that it IS possible to love more than one person at a time, caring for each with no less desire, respect, or fervor than any of the others involved.
    With that said, I'd rather be with one woman who loves me wholeheartedly than an entire harem of lovelies who are only interested in me as a means to their own ends.
    My dad used to tell me "a stiff dick has no conscience. It also has no brain." I can point to the wreckage of more than one "love" affair that was one-sided (hers OR mine), to say the least, as evidence of the absolute truth of this.
    Great post...and you're right; this is awfully heavy mental lifting for a Monday morning! :P

    Best,

    J.S. Wayne

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  2. Hey, J.S.!

    Thanks for weighing in, I was hoping a male would be brave enough to comment! ;)It's nice to hear that you'd prefer a woman who loves you over a whole lot of random lovin'!

    I know many would say men have to make a choice to be monogamous...a daily choice. That's like me making the right decision everyday concerning the consumption of empty calories or anything I know probably isn't good for me...sadly, I don't always stick to my diet plan.

    Thanks again for stopping by! ;-)

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  3. First, a confession. I was so confused that I had to scroll up and check the date. I'm all like Monday?
    Ok, now to the question. My sister and I have discussed this at legnth. We concluded that most women are wired for monogamy. Most men aren't. Most men can be taught monogamy. There is a broad spectrum of people in between the two ends. Like J.S. above says about polyamory, there are lots of options. Men who cheat do so because they are lacking. The partner they are cheating on isn't lacking. I told my husband before we got married that cheating (even affairs of the heart) were a deal breaker. Period. He is mine and I am his. If he isn't happy with something about our relationship either stand up and be heard or just accept it and move on. I was cheated on by a boyfriend and I learned a great deal from that situation. Like, thank God I hadn't married the idiot! Great topic.

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  4. Hi, Jen!

    Sorry about the Monday mix-up, I've fix the error here on my blog, but my brain still thinks it's Monday. lol

    Like I said above, I think men can choose to be monogamous. I think couples, if willing, can find ways to keep the relationship/sex interesting and hot, but I'm not convinced any amount of tricks or love can keep a man from wondering/daydreaming/lusting over NuPussy.

    Whether they sample or not isn't always because the female they're with is lacking in one area or another. IMHO

    *sigh*

    Thanks for joining the conversation! :)

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  5. I'm reading this on a Tuesday night, but I still have to offer a "Dayum!" anyway.

    I think that a man (or a woman) is only as faithful as his/her options. I think that he can choose to be faithful and not be driven by his dick or the need for NuPussy (ROTF with that one right there!). Choose to be committed and dedicated, or choose not to. Live with the consequences either way. But that's just my opinion.

    Also, men tend to cheat "down." Meaning that the other woman is so far below the standard of their wives that wifey has to ask, "You cheated on me with that?" I don't even remotely pretend to understand this because I have a vagina.

    Good stuff!

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  6. Don't get me started. I'll never understand how men can risk everything for a piece of tail--even when they're happy! And then when it's not even an upgrade, it's just downright insulting. Really, Arnold? Really Shania Twain's husband? Was it worth it? Probably not.

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  7. Good post. Thought provoking. Would like to hear from some other men on this subject...or are they afraid to own up to the truth? LOL. Seriously. It's depressing to think all men think with their cocks first. I have to believe that if a man values his relationship and knows what it's doing for him, he will be wise enough to protect it by curbing his urges. Perhaps that's why viewing porn is so big with men?

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  8. Amaya & Delaney, from what I understand 'upgrading' isn't a criteria for fresh tail, it's simply the thrill of slipping into something new for guys. They want the perfect looking trophy wife, SE, or lover, but the females they have an affair with don't have to meet those standards.

    Jean, I'm hoping more guys weigh in as well. I feel like you do that if a guy truly cares about a relationship, he'll think twice about cheating. But we see it happen all the time with the usual response, 'it didn't mean anything to me...it was just sex.'

    Porn does give men a virtual new ass to look at whenever and however they want...I'm not sure if it helps them stay monogamous or stray. When does a man stop wanking to a fantasy and seek out the real deal?

    Thanks for coming by, ladies!

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  9. I think men can be faithful if all of their requirements are met within a relationship. I think a man can keep it in his pants even if he's tempted if he truly cares about his partner. Same goes for a woman. Women seek out other companionship when their emotional needs aren't being met. It's never because their pussy is in need, like a man's cock is. My theory is if a woman can meet her man's physical needs, and he can meet her emotional ones, then nobody should have to look elsewhere.

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  10. I agree with Kellie. I think men can be perfectly happy in a monogamous relationship so long as ALL of their needs are being met. I've always said if a man isn't getting sex at home, he'll get it elsewhere. That goes for any other sexual kink they want or need. But if they're not speaking up on what those needs are, then they gotta take the blame on their own shoulders. Can't get what you ask for if you're not telling your other half what you want. So, communicate people, communicate with your spouse!

    On another note, I don't know what the statistics are, but when I worked divorce law as a paralegal, we dealt with more cases where women cheated on their husbands. A sign of the times? I dunno. Or maybe that had something to do with the small town I lived in.

    Great topic!

    Huggles,
    Gracen

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  11. As a man, I would have to say that some of this "think with your cock" attitude has to do a bit with your upbringing. I was taught to be monogamous, and how important trust needs to be in a relationship. However I do have a friend who doesn't think twice about cheating. He'll tell you, "It's how I am, and the women need to accept that." I can't understand his train of thought, though. So how much does your upbringing have to do with this? How many men from broken homes cheat, and how many from stable families cheat? I think it's a taught attitude sometimes.

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  12. I'd have to agree with Robert in that a lot of cheating stems from having seen it growing up - it takes on a certain normality. That said, I've been cheated on in the past by a man from a perfectly stable home as well, which led me to conclude that, well, some men are just like that.

    Of course, opinion is often divided as to when even constitutes cheating. Does it count if it's cybersex? Does viewing porn count? For me, the answers are yes and no respectively, but I know plenty of people who disagree.

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  13. Robert and Tanith, I do agree that parental roles can influence a child's future behavior in many areas, especially relationship wise, but just as Tanith said there are men who come from stable, loving homes who cheat too.

    It's seems the best or worse parental influences will not be the deciding factor in the heat of the moment.

    Which begs the questions as to whether monogamous relationships go against the core biology of the male...for humans period. But especially men, who've been taught to be hunters, who are revered for conquering and pursuing what they want.

    I thank you both for weighing in! ;-)

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  14. fantastic post! I love the concept that the pussy is wired to the heart...so true! as someone who writes but has also experienced the cock's mind of It's own, I so appreciate your insight. consider me A Follower!
    cheers
    Liz

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  15. Liz, welcome and thanks reading and joining the conversation! ;-)

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  16. Men can be a one women man. I never cheated on my wife. I can tell you though the drive and desire to do so is always there and has to be fought.

    I think men are hard-wired for the "nu". The best advice I can give you ladies is always be thinking of new and exciting ways to spice up your sex life. Step outside yourselves and role play as someone new: A nurse, a teacher, a maid, or even just a sleazy chick lol. Try some new positions or technique. If sex ever gets old and the same, you are inviting trouble. Not saying a man is justified, but there it is just the same.

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