Friday, April 27, 2012

I'd Like To Confess...

I like porn.

Yup, you read that right. If that admission horrifies you...stop reading this post NOW!

To me, there's good porn and bad porn. I've got my favorite stars! :)

I find it interesting that so many woman are afraid or unwilling to admit they enjoy porn. I've heard and read all the arguments and reasons for why porn is bad. If it's not for's not for you. We can't all like the same things. 

I write erotic romance which IS NOT porn. Many erotic romance authors have discussed this and I feel I must make this distinction here too. Erotic romance is about the feelings and emotions that build-up to a sexual relationship that is going to end with the 'L' word. 

Erotic romance is about L-O-V-E. 

The sex is just the icing on the cake.

Porn is just sex. An act of lust...nothing more.

Back to the icing on the erotic romance cake. :)

I've got a very active imagination, but sometimes I seek out a visual interpretation of a scene I'm trying to write. I watch porn because sometimes it helps me paint a more vivid erotic picture as I'm crafting a smokin' hot sex scene.

Hell, I watch it because it turns me on and when I'm turned on...I write. I love erotic romance because it explores the depths and layers of human relationships and shows how passion, lust and desire affects us all. For me, the sex is the icing on the cake! 

And, oh, how I love the frosting!


  1. LOL - Nichelle I couldn't have said it better. I actually read Playboy magazine for the articles.

    Seriously, there is good porn and bad porn. Just like there is good beer and bad beer? Huh, you ask, what does beer have to do with porn?

    Well, my Daddy used to say there are only two kinds of beer in the world, cold beer and warm beer. He preferred his beer cold. That's kind of the way I am about porn. I prefer my porn hot and steamy - nothing held back. If I want nice and cute - I'll watch reruns of the Gilmore Girls or worse, drink warm beer. Muwah!@

  2. You actually read Playboy for the articles...really? lol

    I believe you.

    If I want to watch something cute...I'm soooo not picking the Gilmore Girls. ;-)


  3. I agree with you, there are two kind of porn: good porn and bad porn...BUT... if you allow me, I will add another kind: het porn ang gay porn. I don't care much about the first one. It doesn't do anything to me, at all. I don't know why, I just don't like it, point.
    But when it comes to gay porn..Now that's a real turn on for me.
    Erm...I guess I made another confession today. I keep confessing every where..I should stop or I'll have no more mystery :)

  4. Jade, thank you for commenting!!

    Since you were so brave to confess, I'll tell you that gay porn turns me on too. I didn't think it would...never even thought to watch any and then one day when I was ummm....searching for my favorite kind to watch I came across a vid and I was compelled to watch. I thought I'd just check it out to see and I ended up watching the entire thing!

    I think I get aroused by any consenting adults finding pleasure in one another. lol

    Have a great weekend!



  5. Don't get me started on gay porn...lmao. That's how I learned how to..uhhh...nevermind :)

  6. Don't have a problem with porn. Of course there is good and bad. I do admit that after a while I find it all very monotonous. Same old same old. I have no problem with hubby watching it though :D

    What I'd love to see 'one day' is all these fabulous erotic romances on film. With people who can act and are willing to do the deed as well. Geez. I'd even be happy with pretend sex if it were hot enough. Just annoys me that there's SO many fantastic story lines out there with amazing twists and turns, yet Hollywood come back to the same old boring 'safe' crap all the time.

  7. Lyn,

    I told my husband the same thing these stories being put to film. It would be amazingly hot with terrific actors and sets. I'd be the first in line to get my ticket! He said it would never happen...


    Thanks for commenting! :)


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